Distant relationship

I wonder if there is someone that doesn’t had one distant relationship. Even I had one. I’m not going to discuss the reason for having (or not) one, but see if is something you can handle or not.
I’m telling you right now: I can’t.

You should trust your partner. A lot. If you are someone that get easily jealous; someone who MUST contact the partner every half an hour; someone that see “competitors” all around…well: forget it. At the same time you should be trustable. You can’t ask someone else something that you can’t handle. Make it clear: if you are unfaithful, you can’t expect that your partner is not going to cheat on you.

Take it easy. Both of you are going to have different experience, especially if you live in different country. You are going to be surprise about your partner changes. But he/she is not the only one who changed, you as well.
The good point is that you are going to discover every time a new person; but on the other side maybe you are not going to like what is new. You used to love the old one, not the new one.

Observe, reflect and (then) re-act. The experiences you are going in can be hard to take, you may need the one you love at your side to going through them. But he/she is not going to be at your side: distant relationship. Do you remember? And skype can’t make miracle.
And if you find someone else near you available to listen and take care of you, are you going to be faithful?

The circle is close.

Ofelia